Staying Frosty

Staying Frosty

  • Designing a new Den

    When we purchased our house in 2018, it came with a nicely furnished Den. As the months went on though, the carpet, which appears to have been quickly installed, came loose and began causing issues for my wheelchair.  As the problems grew, we began to investigate replacing the carpet with new flooring.  Our hopes soared,…

  • Living with a Fear

    I’ve been living with a fear. My fear, a fear many face, is one of losing something.   A fear of losing my cares if my income creeps one cent over the limit. A fear of losing more caregivers due to lousy hours, lousy pay, and no benefits. A fear of losing my home when…

  • Keeping Busy in a Slow and Cold Time

    As the pandemic continues, and the weather turns cold, there are fewer activities Lisa and I can do. Often, during the winter months, I’ve taken up some gaming to keep entertained, and have even encouraged Lisa to join in.  As I have enjoyed fantasy oriented Role-Playing Games (RPGs) since childhood, and Lisa also enjoys the…

  • Covid Catch 22

    The epidemic has been trying for everyone. Yet, the hope has been that when care is needed, it will be readily available and accessible. My wife, Lisa, and I have been fortunate that we have not had any direct issues, yet we’ve both had to undergo Covid testing for various purposes. The other day, Lisa…

  • On Someone Else’s Clock

    Something many can appreciate is being subject to someone else’s clock. Whether it’s work, calling you in early, the doctor asking you to come to an early appointment, kids having school activities, or any other obligation. Yet, living with a disability, your entire daily schedule can be subject to others. Getting up, depends on the…

  • Celebrating Diversity

    In this difficult time where the nation is being reminded of the violence and discrimination that the Black community faces on a daily basis, I want to take the time to celebrate diversity. As someone who needs daily cares, I have caregivers four to six times a day.  As such, this need has to be…

  • A Casual Call-Out during these Complicated Times

    Hi all, During the COVID pandemic, things have certainly been interesting.  I have been fortunate enough to retain much of my care-giving staff.  With limited PPE equipment, and limited access to resources things have been interesting.  Quite fortunately, I was provided with a mask per caregiver. As the weather grows nicer, it’s great to take…

  • A Happy Hiatus

    Hi Folks, It’s been awhile.  But I am a happy man with a wonderful life-partner now.  The ceremony and celebration were wonderful.  We had a great time with friends and family.  More details to come.  

  • Dinner and A Movie

    Going to the movies and having a snack or beverage while in the wheelchair is often a struggle.  You have to balance the snack, the drink, and often use both arms to lift and/or stabilize each (if you’re able to lift them).  Yet using a wheelchair tray is an even bigger hassle, having to haul…

  • A House and Home

    After several years of searching, trials and tribulations, we’ve finally found a place to call home.   It all happened out of the blue as well.  Just as we had given up the search, one home came on the listing.  It looked spacious (1700 sq foot), appeared to have a roll-in shower, and was at a…

Got any book recommendations?

Get In Touch